GRRRR!!!!!
AAAAGGGHHH!!!!!
Sometimes I meet people online that are SOOOO ignorant, and close minded!!
Check out this conversation....
depech_mode970 (10:26:20 AM): hello there
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:26:37 AM): Hello
depech_mode970 (10:26:46 AM): how r u?
depech_mode970 (10:26:49 AM):
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:27:01 AM): fine. Thank you.
depech_mode970 (10:27:15 AM): Thomas hoffman
depech_mode970 (10:27:18 AM): nice meeting u
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:27:31 AM): Nice to meet you, too.
depech_mode970 (10:28:00 AM): so ur name is anne?
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:28:17 AM): Does it say that on my profile?
depech_mode970 (10:28:38 AM): well many put many things so i dont know what should i believe
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:28:58 AM): Ann is my middle name. Amethyst will do just fine.
depech_mode970 (10:29:42 AM): so may i ask u something?
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:29:53 AM): You can always ask...
depech_mode970 (10:30:14 AM): well do u believe in those things for real submissive ..etc?
depech_mode970 (10:30:21 AM):
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:30:22 AM): Yes.
depech_mode970 (10:30:27 AM): actually im an engineer
depech_mode970 (10:30:39 AM): so i find it is hard to believe only in material things
depech_mode970 (10:30:44 AM): things i can touch it
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:31:18 AM): I sometimes believe more in things I cannot touch, than those that I can touch.
depech_mode970 (10:31:47 AM): what is ur job?
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:32:05 AM): I am an assistant manager in a store.
depech_mode970 (10:32:46 AM): so u did go in those stuff darkness ..etc
depech_mode970 (10:33:14 AM): i wonder about those things cos i never have them here
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:33:45 AM): What do you mean by "darkness"?
depech_mode970 (10:34:18 AM): well this weird world of those ppl
depech_mode970 (10:34:25 AM): who love those obnormal stuff
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:35:34 AM): People that live the D/s lifestyle are normal, ordinary people. We just have a different way of living out our romantic relationships. Not all D/s people are into the BDSM (whips, chains, ropes etc.)
depech_mode970 (10:35:35 AM): i just feel im in a horro movie right now
depech_mode970 (10:36:10 AM): well i know that every body of us have it is own fantasy
depech_mode970 (10:36:19 AM): i cant denay that
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:36:23 AM): Have you ever seen the television show "Little House on the Prairie"?
depech_mode970 (10:36:51 AM): no im sorry i told u im a dutch and dont have much time to watch tv cos im busy with my work
depech_mode970 (10:36:56 AM):
depech_mode970 (10:37:01 AM): what about it?
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:37:05 AM): You didn't tell me that.
depech_mode970 (10:37:24 AM): thomas hoffman i told u im in amsterdam
depech_mode970 (10:37:28 AM):
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:37:59 AM): It is basically a D/s relationship. All D/s means is that one partner (usually the male) is the "head of household", and the other "subissive" partner obeys. It's not always even a sexual thing.
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:38:15 AM): You told me your name, but not where you were from.
depech_mode970 (10:38:37 AM): ok what ur husband tell u and u would obey?
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:39:06 AM): If I had a husband, and he was someone that was extremely intelligent, and trustworthy, yes.
depech_mode970 (10:39:28 AM): well i understand that ur master is not ur hubby
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:39:46 AM): I do not have a Master or a Hubby right now.
depech_mode970 (10:40:02 AM): hummm then ?
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:40:23 AM): I am not looking for one either.
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:40:47 AM): Thats why my profile says "single, not looking".
depech_mode970 (10:41:13 AM): well im not into those things master and submissive cos actually i feel it is very silly
depech_mode970 (10:41:20 AM): sorry but this is the way i think
depech_mode970 (10:41:23 AM):
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:41:48 AM): In the 50's,and before, all American households were D/s relationships.... Men were always the head of the household.
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:41:57 AM): That is all that D/s is.
depech_mode970 (10:42:19 AM): im 34
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:42:22 AM): Some people bring other things into it, like BDSM.... But that is BDSM, not D/s.
depech_mode970 (10:42:22 AM): and u r 37
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:42:32 AM): And your point is...?
depech_mode970 (10:43:08 AM): u still have all the life in front of u it is very big waste to lose it with those bdsm or ds or bbc or cnn
depech_mode970 (10:43:12 AM):
depech_mode970 (10:43:30 AM): get a life
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:43:55 AM): Men in general are a waste of time. THat is why my profile says "single, not looking". Mainly because all men now are selfish, childish, untrustworthy.
depech_mode970 (10:44:12 AM):
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:44:14 AM): I have not met one single man in years that I would trust.
depech_mode970 (10:44:32 AM): well when u would get a normal life
depech_mode970 (10:44:37 AM): u would find 100s
depech_mode970 (10:44:49 AM): just leave those silly stuff
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:44:54 AM): I have a normal life. I work 70 hours a week in a store, I have two kids, I go to church almost every Sunday.
depech_mode970 (10:44:54 AM): and live normal life
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:45:09 AM): I do not date, I do not socialize, I do not drink (usually).
depech_mode970 (10:45:15 AM): i wish that would be out side and inside
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:45:40 AM): I just feel that the Bible is right. Men should be the head of the households.
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:45:46 AM): God laid that plan out, not me.
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:46:05 AM): In the bible God made man the head of the woman.
depech_mode970 (10:46:19 AM): i mean u believe it and do as that and u try to focus on ur kids and ur life u still young go and find a good man who u can fall in love with and live like any other woman
depech_mode970 (10:46:28 AM): well they share the life
depech_mode970 (10:46:31 AM): no head
depech_mode970 (10:46:38 AM): he is the leader
depech_mode970 (10:46:43 AM): but not master and slave
depech_mode970 (10:46:49 AM):
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:46:53 AM): If I met a man who is worthy of my time, I would. Believe it or not, women don't have to have a man in their life to survive.
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:47:05 AM): I am no ones slave.
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:47:16 AM): I do not wait hand and foot on anyone.
depech_mode970 (10:47:19 AM): it is not a matter of survive it is a matter of the nature
depech_mode970 (10:47:31 AM): a man live with a woman
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:47:35 AM): Women only need men to create children. I have done that.
depech_mode970 (10:47:36 AM): we r human
depech_mode970 (10:47:42 AM): huh
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:47:46 AM): I like my life as it is. Why change it?
depech_mode970 (10:47:46 AM): good for u
depech_mode970 (10:47:52 AM): as u wish
depech_mode970 (10:47:55 AM): keep like that
depech_mode970 (10:48:01 AM): but please do one thing
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:48:27 AM): Im waiting......
depech_mode970 (10:48:48 AM): just dont teach ur kids what do u believe let them live normal life , good luck
depech_mode970 (10:48:51 AM):
He thinks I am going to teach BDSM to my children??? Submission(in it's basic form), to me, boils down to a woman trusting her man completely and letting him be the "final say", after they discuss things. A woman submitting to her man. D/s is totally seperate from BDSM, to me, although BDSM is included in addition to the D/s in many relationships. Does that make any sense? I would not teach my children anything sexual, other than abstinance until they are mature enough to handle a sexual relationship. That is for them to decide when they are old enough. (Lauren is old enough at 18, obviously, but Isaiah is just 6). Yes, the kinky stuff is fun. But that does not affect the rest of my life... and it is not the first criteria that I look for in a man! If I could find a man who is mature, trustworthy, extremely intelligent and responsible, but not kinky, that would be fine for me! There are no single men out there, however, who fit the criteria. Hence, the Single Not Looking... LOL.
I see "submission" on my Yahoo profile, not BDSM....(check it out here) Where does this guy come off attacking me!?!?!
I know, people like that don't matter, and overall I think it's pretty funny... although I do feel sorry for people who are so closed minded they have to judge others....
Sometimes I meet people online that are SOOOO ignorant, and close minded!!
Check out this conversation....
depech_mode970 (10:26:20 AM): hello there
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:26:37 AM): Hello
depech_mode970 (10:26:46 AM): how r u?
depech_mode970 (10:26:49 AM):
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:27:01 AM): fine. Thank you.
depech_mode970 (10:27:15 AM): Thomas hoffman
depech_mode970 (10:27:18 AM): nice meeting u
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:27:31 AM): Nice to meet you, too.
depech_mode970 (10:28:00 AM): so ur name is anne?
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:28:17 AM): Does it say that on my profile?
depech_mode970 (10:28:38 AM): well many put many things so i dont know what should i believe
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:28:58 AM): Ann is my middle name. Amethyst will do just fine.
depech_mode970 (10:29:42 AM): so may i ask u something?
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:29:53 AM): You can always ask...
depech_mode970 (10:30:14 AM): well do u believe in those things for real submissive ..etc?
depech_mode970 (10:30:21 AM):
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:30:22 AM): Yes.
depech_mode970 (10:30:27 AM): actually im an engineer
depech_mode970 (10:30:39 AM): so i find it is hard to believe only in material things
depech_mode970 (10:30:44 AM): things i can touch it
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:31:18 AM): I sometimes believe more in things I cannot touch, than those that I can touch.
depech_mode970 (10:31:47 AM): what is ur job?
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:32:05 AM): I am an assistant manager in a store.
depech_mode970 (10:32:46 AM): so u did go in those stuff darkness ..etc
depech_mode970 (10:33:14 AM): i wonder about those things cos i never have them here
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:33:45 AM): What do you mean by "darkness"?
depech_mode970 (10:34:18 AM): well this weird world of those ppl
depech_mode970 (10:34:25 AM): who love those obnormal stuff
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:35:34 AM): People that live the D/s lifestyle are normal, ordinary people. We just have a different way of living out our romantic relationships. Not all D/s people are into the BDSM (whips, chains, ropes etc.)
depech_mode970 (10:35:35 AM): i just feel im in a horro movie right now
depech_mode970 (10:36:10 AM): well i know that every body of us have it is own fantasy
depech_mode970 (10:36:19 AM): i cant denay that
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:36:23 AM): Have you ever seen the television show "Little House on the Prairie"?
depech_mode970 (10:36:51 AM): no im sorry i told u im a dutch and dont have much time to watch tv cos im busy with my work
depech_mode970 (10:36:56 AM):
depech_mode970 (10:37:01 AM): what about it?
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:37:05 AM): You didn't tell me that.
depech_mode970 (10:37:24 AM): thomas hoffman i told u im in amsterdam
depech_mode970 (10:37:28 AM):
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:37:59 AM): It is basically a D/s relationship. All D/s means is that one partner (usually the male) is the "head of household", and the other "subissive" partner obeys. It's not always even a sexual thing.
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:38:15 AM): You told me your name, but not where you were from.
depech_mode970 (10:38:37 AM): ok what ur husband tell u and u would obey?
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:39:06 AM): If I had a husband, and he was someone that was extremely intelligent, and trustworthy, yes.
depech_mode970 (10:39:28 AM): well i understand that ur master is not ur hubby
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:39:46 AM): I do not have a Master or a Hubby right now.
depech_mode970 (10:40:02 AM): hummm then ?
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:40:23 AM): I am not looking for one either.
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:40:47 AM): Thats why my profile says "single, not looking".
depech_mode970 (10:41:13 AM): well im not into those things master and submissive cos actually i feel it is very silly
depech_mode970 (10:41:20 AM): sorry but this is the way i think
depech_mode970 (10:41:23 AM):
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:41:48 AM): In the 50's,and before, all American households were D/s relationships.... Men were always the head of the household.
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:41:57 AM): That is all that D/s is.
depech_mode970 (10:42:19 AM): im 34
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:42:22 AM): Some people bring other things into it, like BDSM.... But that is BDSM, not D/s.
depech_mode970 (10:42:22 AM): and u r 37
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:42:32 AM): And your point is...?
depech_mode970 (10:43:08 AM): u still have all the life in front of u it is very big waste to lose it with those bdsm or ds or bbc or cnn
depech_mode970 (10:43:12 AM):
depech_mode970 (10:43:30 AM): get a life
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:43:55 AM): Men in general are a waste of time. THat is why my profile says "single, not looking". Mainly because all men now are selfish, childish, untrustworthy.
depech_mode970 (10:44:12 AM):
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:44:14 AM): I have not met one single man in years that I would trust.
depech_mode970 (10:44:32 AM): well when u would get a normal life
depech_mode970 (10:44:37 AM): u would find 100s
depech_mode970 (10:44:49 AM): just leave those silly stuff
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:44:54 AM): I have a normal life. I work 70 hours a week in a store, I have two kids, I go to church almost every Sunday.
depech_mode970 (10:44:54 AM): and live normal life
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:45:09 AM): I do not date, I do not socialize, I do not drink (usually).
depech_mode970 (10:45:15 AM): i wish that would be out side and inside
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:45:40 AM): I just feel that the Bible is right. Men should be the head of the households.
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:45:46 AM): God laid that plan out, not me.
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:46:05 AM): In the bible God made man the head of the woman.
depech_mode970 (10:46:19 AM): i mean u believe it and do as that and u try to focus on ur kids and ur life u still young go and find a good man who u can fall in love with and live like any other woman
depech_mode970 (10:46:28 AM): well they share the life
depech_mode970 (10:46:31 AM): no head
depech_mode970 (10:46:38 AM): he is the leader
depech_mode970 (10:46:43 AM): but not master and slave
depech_mode970 (10:46:49 AM):
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:46:53 AM): If I met a man who is worthy of my time, I would. Believe it or not, women don't have to have a man in their life to survive.
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:47:05 AM): I am no ones slave.
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:47:16 AM): I do not wait hand and foot on anyone.
depech_mode970 (10:47:19 AM): it is not a matter of survive it is a matter of the nature
depech_mode970 (10:47:31 AM): a man live with a woman
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:47:35 AM): Women only need men to create children. I have done that.
depech_mode970 (10:47:36 AM): we r human
depech_mode970 (10:47:42 AM): huh
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:47:46 AM): I like my life as it is. Why change it?
depech_mode970 (10:47:46 AM): good for u
depech_mode970 (10:47:52 AM): as u wish
depech_mode970 (10:47:55 AM): keep like that
depech_mode970 (10:48:01 AM): but please do one thing
lady_amethyst_hawke (10:48:27 AM): Im waiting......
depech_mode970 (10:48:48 AM): just dont teach ur kids what do u believe let them live normal life , good luck
depech_mode970 (10:48:51 AM):
He thinks I am going to teach BDSM to my children??? Submission(in it's basic form), to me, boils down to a woman trusting her man completely and letting him be the "final say", after they discuss things. A woman submitting to her man. D/s is totally seperate from BDSM, to me, although BDSM is included in addition to the D/s in many relationships. Does that make any sense? I would not teach my children anything sexual, other than abstinance until they are mature enough to handle a sexual relationship. That is for them to decide when they are old enough. (Lauren is old enough at 18, obviously, but Isaiah is just 6). Yes, the kinky stuff is fun. But that does not affect the rest of my life... and it is not the first criteria that I look for in a man! If I could find a man who is mature, trustworthy, extremely intelligent and responsible, but not kinky, that would be fine for me! There are no single men out there, however, who fit the criteria. Hence, the Single Not Looking... LOL.
I see "submission" on my Yahoo profile, not BDSM....(check it out here) Where does this guy come off attacking me!?!?!
I know, people like that don't matter, and overall I think it's pretty funny... although I do feel sorry for people who are so closed minded they have to judge others....
6 Comments:
I actually never had a clue what being submissive was until I met Hawk. THen, after hearing from him what D/s was all about, I enjoyed the submissive part, but wasn't into the kinky sex that much. I want a dominant male whom I can trust, rely on, someone to... (how do I explain it?) Well, at work, and out in public I am extremely dominant, in charge. When I go home, I want someone else to be in charge... R always said I was looking for a "father figure"... I don't know, maybe I am... someone who I can respect enough to be submissive to, not just sexually, but our whole relationship. The kinky sex I can take or leave....
I understand what you are saying. I always say that D/s is not something we do, it is who we are. Mac sees our D/s as nothing more than me being feminine and He being masculine. We actually use very little BDSM. There are no 'scenes' there is no punishment, there is no service. Things in our house are divided on what we see as traditional roles. I do not expect Him to wash clothes, He does not expect me to mow lawns. I have said before that if Mac said to me, 'get me a cup of tea,' I would tell Him to sod off and get it Himself, but if He said 'babe, would you make me a cup of tea please? I would run to do it for Him.
The whole idea of a 'Daddy' leaves me cold, but Mac will tell you that at times I am certainly a little girl and He is the big strong Man that looks after me. We see nothing wrong with that. You have to do what makes life easier for you and bugger everyone else.
It always amazes me when I find out there are poeple out there that actually DO understand me...lol... I always feel so isolated here... thanks for all the great comments and encouragement...
Im so sorry! I try so hard not to step on anyone's toes here... What I put in my blog is what I believe for myself. I do know there are as many different ideas about D/s as there are people... and they are all right! D's is a personal thing, whether you are Dominant, submissive, or switch. I truly am sorry I hurt your feelings... (and I envy you being able to switch, it's just something I don't think is in my nature)
I absolutly agree with you.
rb_pl_thng (YIM)
Having grown up in a very straight laced Methodist family, the biblical connection gave me a way in the beginning to alleviate the guilt... I don't feel guilty at all anymore, but the biblical description still makes me feel better, I guess....
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